Even aside from life gets busy, sometimes peeps need to take some down time from the world, or go through stuff,or potentially lots of other reasons. We don’t get to walk a mile in their shoes so how can we reasonably conclude anything?
I am at peace with anyone judging me for being out of the loop, because I’m living my truth and following my inner guidance, exercising free will. And with those who don’t judge, it can be so amazing to catch up. A case in point; when I caught up with an old school friend I hadn’t stayed connected with or seen in 10 years, we didn’t miss a beat…straight into the vibe we’d shared with each other back at school. I just love that.
And I appreciate the lovely sentiments I’ve received from friends who have reconnected after a long time and appreciated my happy, flowing, supportive vibe. A couple of friends over the last couple of years mentioned that others in their world gave them a hard time over it, took it personally, made them wrong. That puzzles me. I mean really, what the…? Surely they would realise it is counter-productive and detrimental to the friendship? Why would you drive a wedge in it like that? (Actually, I do know the answer to that, but I seriously just don’t get it.)
Unconditional love is where we totally support whatever others choose for themselves. If we wish for others to be happy, then surely it has to be that we 100% respect their autonomy and the choices they make regardless of how it pans out or whether we figure in the equation or not.
If I love you to pieces, I love you to pieces for all time. I celebrate low maintenance, drama-free friends and I celebrate being one! Whoot whoot! 🙂
© Maia Kshemya 2016